S5E17: The Frequency of Miracle Magick with Amanda Young

Ready to ditch the hustle and tap into something way more magical? This episode is a full-body permission slip to believe in miracles again. I’m joined by the deliciously intuitive Amanda H. Young – Miracle Instigator, soul guide, and catalyst for secretly magical humans who are DONE living small and ready to expand into infinite possibility. Think fast, deep, and embodied transformation – no fluff, no bypassing, just truth, clarity, and sovereignty.

We dive into:

• Amanda’s journey from corporate long lunches to full-blown miracle midwifery (spoiler: the signs were there all along)
• the sneaky ways we block miracles (even when we say we want them)
• why trying to “keep the pace” is killing your magic – and what to do instead
• what it really means to live in a field of miracles – and how Amanda’s expanding into an even deeper frequency in her work right now

If your soul is craving more ease, more flow, more magic – this convo is especially for you!

Find Amanda and her miracle vortex at www.amandahyoung.com

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TRANSCRIPT - S5E17: The Frequency of Miracle Magick with Amanda Young

Amanda H Young: [00:00:00] I thought I was gonna be in marketing and working in ad agencies and having long lunches and being super creative, now I'm working in the field of miracles and helping people step right in Super fun.

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We start these episodes with a little boogie. Hello everybody. Welcome to the podcast. Hello [00:03:00] and welcome, Amanda Young. Hello, how are you? Hello. Hello. So good to be here. You are sitting in a streaming sunlight here, and I'm like, yes, this is Amanda as I know her coming from the angelic rims to talk to us today.

I'm so excited to have you here. And for those of you out there that don't already know, Amanda, would you like to introduce yourself?

Amanda H Young: Yeah I'm a miracle instigator and I live outside of Chicago in a small town called Oak Park. And I've been doing this for a decade now, and it's not what I originally thought I would be doing.

I thought I was gonna be in marketing and working in ad agencies and having long lunches and being super creative, and now I get to do my own art and I get to help people work through trauma and transitions and all sorts of life. I. Things that they're dealing with in really magical ways, and then their life gets [00:04:00] easier and things happen that they never thought was even possible.

And I can say I honestly love what I get to do every day. It lights me up. People are like, doesn't that drain you to do that stuff? And I'm like, no. It's so incredibly invigorating, as yeah, you do similar things to bring magic into people's worlds and help 'em expand into what's possible.

So yeah, now I'm working in the field of miracles and helping people step right in Super fun.

Kylie Patchett: That is, I love that you thought that you were gonna be a long luncher. And I'm like, because I know you, I'm like, I can't see you long lunching. You'd be like, this is bullshit. Everybody's fake.

Amanda H Young: And then, when we did it, I had an internship back in college and I remember going to a long lunch and this woman was like, yeah, I need to go buy a lipstick.

And then like we had, I. Drinks for lunch and I just can't tolerate alcohol. And I was like, yeah, I'm not gonna make it in this industry. My body just doesn't like alcohol. I never have been much of a drinker. And I was like, yeah I'm not one of the Mad Men stars. [00:05:00]

Kylie Patchett: It's so funny. Oh my. It's like the younger versions of us see something and idealize it and then we get it and we are like, oh no, this doesn't seem fun.

Amanda H Young: This does not seem fun. Yeah. No, thanks.

Kylie Patchett: Yeah. I'm really

Amanda H Young: glad

Kylie Patchett: that didn't work out. Oh, so good. It's such a blessing when you look back. I How did you even become to be aware of the fact that you've had this gift for just opening doors and unlocking, pathways? I always think of Amanda as like the, I don't know, the key in the door and then the door flows open and all the miracles come in for that person.

And, but how did she even, like, where were the whispers about this gift that you had?

Amanda H Young: It's been such a journey. I think it it definitely didn't even start out as whispers. It was much more of a anxiety. I had some night terrors I was having, and then a masseuse was explaining to me that was spirits in my bedroom.

And I was like, oh, wait, I see dead people. And she's like that. But I [00:06:00] don't really I've only had a couple of experiences and that led me into reiki and then theta healing and then a form of chronic healing called energy mastery. And then that led me to, I was doing mindset work.

It just became this cornucopia of stuff, STIC records. Then I had some key people I had some people in my life dying, like one died in a tragedy. And that really opened me up because all of a sudden. He was one of my guides and then was talking like I was seeing symbols all the time, and then it just kept spiraling.

And then I hired a coach and then it, my friend taught me how to do tarot cards and Oracle cards. And then all, it just, the woo just started seeping into my life, I think, in various different forms. And I started my business doing marketing, coaching and copywriting for people. And then it became business coaching.

And then it became, oh, let's clean up their energy and help them let me wave my hands and magically they feel better. And then it became, oh, I can also do mindset work and help them [00:07:00] shift into this, these miracles so that their lives aren't so rough anymore. And now it's, hey, step into the field of miracles.

I'm gonna be a miracle instigator and just own it and come into my world. Cool. Stuff's gonna start happening to you and. So it is let's just

Kylie Patchett: throw reality out the window and it's of course this is all gonna happen because I don't know, when you say Field of Miracles, like I just have such a visceral experience to that.

It's yeah. I'm coming into the field of miracles because I feel like the miracles are there all around us, but we've been so conditioned to not see them or don't think that they're possible, and so we don't act in ways that invite them and all of those things. I'm curious, in your own life, how did you obviously you're opening miracles for other people.

What's happening in your own life at the same time? Are you aware that you can step into this field too? Because I sometimes feel like there's that, oh, I can do this for other people, but maybe I can't actually receive [00:08:00] it or allow it for myself. What's that journey? Yeah,

Amanda H Young: I am I'm in the current, I'm currently in the field of miracles.

I have been for years without really knowing that's what's going on. But I'm going even deeper into it 'cause I'm now challenging myself to create things that are even bigger. You've seen it personally in our work together with my business and expanding into working with clients on a bigger scale.

I it's about, for me, it's about learning how worthy you actually are and deconditioning, deprogramming, all the stuff that you've been given. But even there's so many things that have happened in my life. In the last, just in the last. I don't know, handful of years, five or six years.

I ended up inve investing heavily in a coach and needing to declare bankruptcy. 'cause I over invested. She was, like many coaches do. I know you're on this coaches to coach. I'm on a, I'm on a rampage at the moment. And so I've worked with a bunch of coaches that have just been like, oh [00:09:00] yeah, we can help you and it's gonna be amazing and just give us some money and we're gonna do it.

And so I invested, I think probably over 10 years, I probably invested like $150,000 in coaching, which is a PhD at this point. Yeah. I know what the hell I'm doing. I know what not to do. And for me, that was they all would say, we can totally help you. You're gonna make all this money.

It's gonna be phenomenal. And it, I thought it was all end of the business, but it wasn't. So yeah. Then when I decided I, my marriage was over after 20 years of I married my best friend from high school, but we didn't start dating till college. And then, we have two kids together and he's an incredible guy and it just wasn't right for me anymore.

After, when I left I was like, wait, how am I gonna get an apartment? 'cause I have a bankruptcy on my record. What the hell? And then sure enough, the angel popped out and was just like, Hey, I rent to women who are in your situation and I have a space and I think you'd be perfect for it. And then I stayed there for a year and a half and energetically outgrew it.

And I was like what the hell am I gonna do now? Same thing. Another woman [00:10:00] was like, I have been through the divorce. I know what you're going through and I'm willing to work with you. And that happened and now I've just expanded my energetic bubble that this apartment doesn't feel right either.

And the next one. I have no idea. It's so exciting. I'm sitting here I think it's like literally 45 days from now, I will be in a new space. I'm working on manifesting a home instead of an apartment so that I can manage my energy better. I've been working with coaches on really grounding that in, I've learned the secret language of ceremony.

So I am one of those people that now goes to the woods and sits by a big tree and just listens and basks in that energy and makes an offering and puts my prayers and plants them in the ground and lets them grow. And I'm recognizing that I get to do that for my clients now too. That's part of this new emergence of what I'm doing is to take each of those clients and not just put them, not just do a one-on-one kind of therapy type [00:11:00] session where it's just oh, you've got a problem.

Poof. Here's the answer. Now what?

Kylie Patchett: Yeah. Yep.

Amanda H Young: Now I get to take them into, put 'em, put them under my energetic wing and get to say. This is what it feels like for magic to start happen. And then they're, they have magic money coming to them that they weren't expecting. They have, even if things that are quote unquote bad happen to them, they're just, we rephrase that and I say that's actually not necessarily a bad thing.

It's just something that's you're experiencing and how can we spin this because it's causing you, as we were just talking about before we started this, like the Dahlia, it crunches a little and then expands and it crunches and expands, and I'm doing that. It's, it feels a little bit like an accordion or your lungs, how you just breathe in and breathe out.

But I'm realizing that I get to now do that with my clients and I get to take their prayers and then go plant them by my big favorite tree and do my dance in the woods. I was just talking to one of my other coaches the other day and she's I see a drum in your future. I need you to be drumming around this tree loudly, [00:12:00] acting weird.

She's she said, be absurd. And I was like, oh, what? Great advice. Just go be

Kylie Patchett: Amanda. We all need someone in our life to tell us to be more absurd. I just, I I had a moment with you earlier this week. You've just done some beautiful new headshot and I, as soon as I saw one of them, one of them in particular is I see that on the back of and I thought they were tarot cards and you were like, no, it'd be Oracle of cards.

And I was just like, there's all of these layers, like all of your beautiful art and then your ceremony and then all of the miracle and witchy stuff. And I'm just like, yeah. It just, it's so excites me that so many of the heart led people in the world at the moment are really stepping into new evolutions of work and being able to say.

I'm not playing at the edges of the one-on-one, like quick dip your toe in, but then run away again, kind of client relationships that I'm craving these deeper, more. I was gonna [00:13:00] say more meaningful. It's not that the one-on-one's not meaningful, but it's just, I love that sort of term, the energetic wing.

'cause it's yeah, come on over here. And because I feel like your work does so much in normalizing miracles for people. Yeah. So it's not it's not like the dip your toe in and. Here's our miracle, or one example, and then people just think, oh, that's a once off, or that was a fluke, or that's a whatever.

Whatever bullshit our brain would tell us, you are kind of bang. Yeah. No. I can teach you how to live in the field of miracles. That is way more fun.

Amanda H Young: Yeah. I had this woman come to me a couple months ago and she's I have a fear of flying. And I said, okay, sure. And we did two sessions and then she texted me from another country and was like, that was the best flight I've ever had.

And she had spent thousands of dollars with experts who guaranteed her that they could solve her thing and it didn't work. And she actually referred another client to me, but she didn't come back. And I was like. Why on Earth? 'cause it wasn't a fear of flying. It was a [00:14:00] childhood trauma that she needed to unlock, as it typically is.

Kylie Patchett: Yeah.

Amanda H Young: And when you don't, and you can go to therapy for these things, but it can take months or years or you can just not get it because people, therapists are trained in their box. No offense to that 'cause it works. I've had therapists and it's great, but like the magic of being able to do this off record, like just out of bounds.

Like I can play out of bounds. I can go to the past life stuff. I can go to the, I can just get my, I can use my intuitive connection, my clear cognizance to go into the world and the realms that people can't see otherwise. And I just, when she didn't come back for more work, I was like, oh my goodness.

And you and I talked about this the other day. I realized it's. Not the peak she thought she had peaked and was like, problem solve next. And I'm like no. This was the door. Yes. That was the miracle and I can give you all the miracles. And she just shut the door. And I was like, oh, how sad for her.

And I think that's what's at one point, [00:15:00] I had a coach many years ago say to me, you're gonna go stand in front of the stage of, an entire auditorium full of people and you're on stage and you're getting an award and you stand up on stage and one of the people in the audience says something shameful.

It was like, we're really pissed off that it's taking you this long to let your light out of the box. And I was just like, holy crap. It hit me viscerally. And I remember like tearing up and being like. Oh my God. People need my light. Like they're pissed at me. This entire room of thousands and thousands of people are mad because I haven't shown, like I've been hoarding my gifts and I've been but we've been taught to hoard them. We've been taught to shut them down and turn them off. And it's just it's so sad to see that. And I sit with my clients time after time, literally this week, I said to a woman, at what point in your life did you decide that you were no longer worthy? Is it like five years old, 10 years old?

Like at what point is your [00:16:00] daughter not gonna be worthy? Is there, does she hit a time? Yeah, like it's just oh, you are 13 now. You're gonna become a woman. We're no longer gonna value you. Like screw that. I'm not available for that anymore. And I'm said to my guides the other day, I like named off all my grandparents.

I was like, yo, when did this shit generationally hit my box? 'cause I'm done. Like I'm throwing out your trash. Yeah. I'm no longer not. I'm no longer available to not be worthy enough to be charging what I'm worth and doing the work I'm doing and showing up in a more beautiful way. Yeah. And you called it last night when you said, we're gonna do this interview and you're gonna get on your soapbox and you're gonna show up and you're gonna shine and you're gonna be like, this is who I am.

Either like me or you don't. Yeah, exactly. And if you love me, like the miracles are gonna come rolling in. You wanna come play. But if not, I'm not for everybody. And I know that for sure now, but I'm not gonna shrink myself anymore for it, which is really. I'm grateful for that and I'm grateful for the point now where I can stand up on stage and be like, no, I did show up.

I am [00:17:00] showing up. And if you are, yeah, exactly. Now my clients can show up and they can meet

Kylie Patchett: me there. This is the thing, like we don't understand I'm always saying to people like, the gift that you have, yes. The medicine is for you, it's also for the rest of us. So if you don't give yourself permission for you, then yeah, you are ripping the rest of us off.

But I do feel like there is so much to be said for I don't know, sometimes I feel like in the coaching industry, people go to like the, I don't wanna say the end of the spectrum 'cause it's not finite, but they leap from doing their training all the way to I'm the expert and I'm amazing at this and there's something to be said for, I. Owning your potential. But I do feel like there's a bit of instability in that if you haven't done the yards right.

And when you are speaking, I'm like, this woman knows who she's, she knows what her gifts are. You've done it rinse and repeat in a way that feels, has felt like good and safe. And now it's [00:18:00] like you are actually being invited to this whole new evolution and it's scary as fuck. And people need to understand that.

Just because it's scary doesn't mean it's possible. But also like we have been talking about like that DA thing, I always keep that in mind 'cause it's like when you expand, there is a natural contraction that happens after it. That is the way of the world. And that contraction doesn't mean it's not possible, it just means that you are on the edge of where you haven't ever been.

But by you owning this, like you, I don't know, like one of those photos, like I was just like, this chick looks like a queen in these photos. You've got the most glorious hair. I love your hair. You said a genetic jackpot. You certainly did. You got this gorgeous hair and it's like sweeping down your face.

And I'm like, she needs a crown and a throne. That is such a key theme for you in your work. It's like this sovereignty and rulership and as you are stepping into it and owning it. You are giving permission for your clients to actually take their places as well. And I feel like that's such a [00:19:00] gift and we just don't understand I know it's very easy to be in the human and feel the edge of contraction or whatever, but this beautiful, I don't know, it's like a slipstream of invitation comes behind us, right?

It's oh, hang on a minute. If she can own that, then I can own that. I'm really curious, what do you feel like, do you see themes? Actually no. I wanna ask you about Claire Cogn cognizance as well. So when you started to get all of these kind of more clear, like the tragedy happened, you got like more awareness of guides, et cetera, did you have any time where you were like, this is not.

Like real or not safe, or not I feel like sometimes when people have that first bit of spiritual awakening, there's a bit of what's going on here? Yeah. Destabilizing.

Amanda H Young: Yeah. It's funny that you say that. When I was having the night terrors, it was like a man was standing at the end of my bed and I would wake up screaming like, what the heck?

I ended [00:20:00] up going on a wackadoodle journey. I was in outside of Las Vegas for a event, and these two women who were psychics pulled me aside, like I was talking to them about it and they're like, oh, you have an attachment or an entity or something. Shit just got weird Kylie, like super weird. And I was like, did they you a.

Huh? Did they slip you a drink first? No. You would think right? Me and my water. 'cause I was just explaining to 'em what was going on and they're like, we can totally help you with that. And I went into this hotel room with them I don't know why, but I'm so called to do this and they did this.

I, I wanna say like an exorcism. I know this sounds absolutely ridiculous, but all I know is that my hands, like my shoulders, they had me rolling my shoulders and energetically my hands felt like Iron Man. There was so much light coming out of them and I felt this thing released from me. And it was, there was this whole story about apparently when you are born, and I don't even know how much of this I'm on board with, but it was like, [00:21:00] when.

It was almost like I got scared when I was coming into this world and I hooked onto another soul and brought it with me. And we were conjoined twins in a past life and had, there's this worry about we were in the circus together, we were part of the freak show. It was like this whole thing. And so this whole, this whole story, but after that, I gotta say I felt a hell of a lot better.

And it was just so weird that I was like, nothing I'm doing is even remotely as close to this weird, but I will say that when I learned Theta Healing Basics, I learned how to do muscle testing. And that's when it opened up for me, because it was a three day training in this woman's home. And she kept just having us go up to the seventh, we went into theta.

Kylie Patchett: And then my eyes would start fluttering. And then when we would ask these questions and we learned how to muscle test, but we also for me, muscle testing became like a wink. Instead, I don't have to use my body. It's just like a, it's a, it's knowing. And I think that's when the clear cognizant started to kick in, because I was, [00:22:00] when people are like do you feel things?

Amanda H Young: Do you know things? Do you see things? I don't really see much. But I definitely, all of a sudden I'll be like, I don't know why I'm supposed to ask you this question, but here's the question. And then people are like, sometimes they burst into tears and sometimes they're just, it's just a sense.

Occasionally I'll get the goosebumps and the tingles and the, ooh, we're on the right track. But for the most part it's just annoying. And it's, and it, I don't know that it's scary sometimes it's confusing more than anything. And I want it to be more clear. I almost want them to turn it up even more.

And I, I have friends that I've, I've, at this point I've probably, I know probably like 200. Woo. People in the world that I've worked with, and some of 'em can see your guides behind you and feel at least. And I was like, I don't really see them. I don't, I can't identify who they are unless I go through a whole series of questions and muscle test.

And I would like to have, I definitely, I'm afraid of the whole I see dead people, but I don't really I don't know. I'm open [00:23:00] to whatever. Like I feel like there's an opportunity for them to turn up the clarity on things. Maybe not the weird, but I'm open to even feeling even more of it. And that's yeah.

Kylie Patchett: Exciting. Exactly. Cool. I just, I love how, 'cause I am, I'm very visual. I definitely see more than anything else, although sometimes I hear. A voice, which has definitely freaked me out in the past. And I'm like, have I got something going on mental health wise? But I recognize it now as, yeah, I, I feel like it's like the voice of, I don't know, the voice of God, the voice of the universe, the voice of the goddess, like whatever words you want to put around it.

Yeah. And actually the very first time I heard that was I just had a friend share something that happened to her yesterday and it reminded me. When I was managing a medical company, I had this moment, I'm sure I've said this to you at some stage in the past, but I had this moment where I had gone to where our new, like a lot of medical suites [00:24:00] were, and there's those big heavy glass doors, and it had one of those really like heavy metal handles that you had to turn down and push the door.

And I heard a voice, this was when I was 26, a long time ago, heard a voice saying, you are hemorrhaging your joy here. And I was like, what? What, who the fuck was that? But yeah I don't I don't know, like I, when you say I feel like I would love all of those things turned up, but I also wonder whether.

It would destabilize our human experience,

Amanda H Young: I think. Yeah. I have a friend that feels things really intensely and it is destabilizing for her at times. Yeah. And I think I've worked with psychics that have little, that work with little kids to help them feel into their feelings. And even with my teenagers, I will ask them, my daughter used to have this tingly thing on her back.

Yeah. And when we started digging into it, it was it's just her spidey sense of something's not right. And so once, once we start playing with that, my son would go into he has this cool built, like he would go [00:25:00] into, antique stores. We would go, if we were stopping into a Goodwill or something and he'd be like, mom, gimme the keys.

I gotta go sit in the car. And I was like, what's going on there? And it was, he just feels all of it. He's I have two gorgeous little empath, right? And so what I I actually had a friend work with him and she was just like, she taught him return to sender and he just sends all the energy back.

And now he's fine. But he, we're all learning is this my energy? Is this somebody else's? Yeah. And I get that. I have I talk about my clients being secretly magical. 'cause a lot of 'em don't even know that they have, I. They, they're just so shut down that they don't, they haven't owned their intuition.

They don't understand, they don't have the language for it. 'cause it's all woo and out there and Oh. Which is crazy. So part of this is getting them online with feeling into their feelings and what it's like to be in their body and actually oh, hey, that's your intuition. And you so many of them will say, oh yeah, when I don't listen to my gut, things don't go well.

And I'm like, and when you listen to your gut, they do. And even teaching, I teach my niece [00:26:00] how to do human design, she's a projector, and all of a sudden she's just whoa, this is life changing. I use a lot of human design in my work like you do, and it's been really helpful for clients to just be like, oh wait, this is what's going on.

Kylie Patchett: Yep.

Amanda H Young: So I think my whole. Advice to people when they're working with me or just in general, is to learn who you are and how you work and what your clear cogni like, what's your, what your your superpowers are as far as if you're Clair cognizant or clairvoyant or whatever. Yeah. And get a mentor to help you work through that stuff and hold space for that to be safely done.

Because I think, I have a friend too who sees dead people all the time and he is it is freaky. No, thank you. I don't think I'd want

Kylie Patchett: that one. Although I would like to chat with my dad on the daily. So maybe if I could just see one dead person please. Would you mind? Yeah. Although I have a friend who's a medium and she was doing, she's doing like a soul session with me, she's expanding into [00:27:00] new ways of being as well, and she's oh, because she saw my dad a couple of times ago and she's oh, your dad's not available today. He's got some arc angel stuff that he is doing. And I'm like, yeah, that sounds like my dad.

Like he was always into community service, right? So she's he's saying hi, but he's just passing through. I was like, yeah, that does actually sound like my dad. What I was gonna ask before, and you've led into it a little bit, is do you see themes in how your clients have made themselves unavailable to see or feel or sense any of the miracles?

And you mentioned understanding how you are designed and things. So I guess one of the ways is. Pretending to be someone that you're not, and so therefore you're playing in a, a field that makes it very hard for you to even notice things. But do you see other themes like how do we actually, like, when did we freaking forget, first of all?

That's

Amanda H Young: a big question. Yeah, it's a great question. It's just not safe like it, for [00:28:00] me, what I learned is, apparently I have this gift. I think of it as having some markers. I don't know, it's almost not like physical drawing markers, but almost like a genetic marker or some sort of I have a gift where a total stranger will come up to me and just like vomit out everything in their personal life that's going on.

Like I would be standing at an event in line at the buffet, and a woman would come up to me and be like, yeah, my husband died of Covid and that's why I'm here. I'm trying to make new friends. And I was like, holy crap. This is way too much information to give somebody in the first six 30 or 60 seconds.

But I have a friend, I have a friend I go to coffee with, and she's just, or we go get tea. I don't drink coffee, but we get tea and she says she's I've watched it for years, Amanda I've known you for 20 years. And I just watch people. They come up and they just drop this stuff on you and you're just like, yeah.

And you just go with it without missing a beat because, and like a lot of times it's grief. It's just, it's fascinating, but. What happens is when I naturally, I think am a human [00:29:00] being that can hold a, I have a grief marker because I lost this friend in this tragedy. It was actually a theater shooting in Cal, in Colorado

Kylie Patchett: Oh.

Years

Amanda H Young: ago. And but it has taught me how, like the energy of a national trauma and what it's like to feel that and to to the point where when the queen mom died, I don't know, a year ago or whatever, I could feel the grief of the country and the whole world. And I was like, man, why am I, oh, that's again, going to somebody else's energy.

Yeah. But what I find with my, I think the themes with my clients, I will find that when I am, it's almost like I'm in. School sometimes. And all of a sudden I'll have all different variety of clients who come to me with different angles of suicidal things. Like one of 'em had a dad die and one of 'em had, suicidal ideations or some there's some sort of connection in that.

And then I'm like, oh, and it's almost like I'm getting a 360 tour of what that feeling and what that is. [00:30:00]

Kylie Patchett: Yeah. Gee. And

Amanda H Young: then it's and then it's like I graduate from that and then all of 'em have the next ailment. They all have a parent that's died or a loss of a sibling or something. It's like a major grief thing.

So what I find though, with their themes as far as, it's like not feeling safe and being conditioned not to love their body or their gifts or whatever's magical about them. For some reason, they've been shut down. And then it's what they think should be all, they're shutting on themselves all the time.

Yep. Trying to please other people. You talk about so many of these things that, your clientele is just drawn to this good girl people pleaser. It's about good girl clothing. That's my avatar of client. Yeah. It feels like worthiness and lovability and being able to set boundaries and hold space for yourself.

Yeah. And really, I think a lot of people, I. I work with are moms who have lost their identity when they had kids. And I remember being on the playground and everyone would be like, [00:31:00] hi, I'm Susie's mom. And I was like, hi, I'm Amanda, Ian and Ada are my children. Period. Like I was just like, I will not be defined.

Some days I'd be like, I'm ADA's mom. But it was really out of exhaustion instead of I knew that I needed to hold my ground as a human and not just be like, look, I'm a walking, milk producer. No. Yeah, exactly.

Kylie Patchett: Yeah. I am the walking arranger of this group of humans because by definition I'm the mother and therefore I have to be as you're talking, I just feel like it's all of the, I know we use the word conditioning so much, but all of the ways in which we've been taught.

That being ourselves is not okay. All that safety stuff and the worthiness and all of those things. And I just feel I don't know, like there's so many, it's so interesting. I'm in this group doing a training at the moment and a lot of people are in the states and the last call that we were in, there was a lot of angst about what is going on politically, anything.

Yeah. And I guess in one way, in Australia we [00:32:00] are removed from it a little bit in terms of the impact, although it will have, repercussions. But I was just drawn to the, I don't know, like we really make our own awarenesses by what we let into our field and what we don't.

And a hundred percent why I don't watch news at all. I just, I am very ignorant of most things that go on in the world and I've had really heated conversations with people about how can you be, how can you not be am like, I don't actually think us humans are meant to know. Everything that happens everywhere.

That's just but I just feel like when I feel into the work that you do, like I keep on I, you've sh you've shown me a picture of your favorite tree where you go to do your thing. And I just feel like it's such a cool, back to the basics of being in tune with nature, in tune with our own nature.

So our own design and just letting go of all of the [00:33:00] boxes that we've been given. 'cause I don't know, as we are talking, I've never really put this together with you in your work, but the miracles, like when you're inside of any box trying to be anything but who you really are, the miracles can't even find you.

It's like you're hiding from them or something.

Amanda H Young: Because your expectations are elsewhere. If you, and I think I've spent. I'm turning 46 this year and I've spent most of my life externally focused on, let me go get it. Let me go find it. Where is it? Show me the answers. But I remember in math class we had textbooks that, like all the odds were that, the answers were all on the back of the book.

And it just, and it was always about finding the right answer. We were taught, we were trained to find the right answer and it was always outside of us. And our elders always knew best. And I've since grown up and realized they say when there's a point where the student becomes the teacher and I finally feel like I am the teacher, I'm also a student in very, I'm always gonna be a student 'cause I'm a lifelong learner.

[00:34:00] That's

Kylie Patchett: part

Amanda H Young: of my human design to just always absorb new knowledge.

Kylie Patchett: Yeah.

Amanda H Young: And I'm always thinking, Ooh, I wanna learn this. I wanna learn this. And for me it's so much more. Understanding that there is a point where we become the teacher and we actually have the knowledge that we need, but also understanding that it's an inside job.

It comes from inside of us, but we are so frigging turned off. We are just taught. Yeah. I can't, I remember when I had kids, I, when I was in labor, I looked at my husband and he's like, how can I help you? Do you want me to rub you or something? And I said, no, sit there and look pretty. Just sit there and pretty.

And he was so shocked by that. And we talk about it still to this day because he's I. I can't believe that's what you said to me. And I was like, I feel like that's what people told me my whole life was just sit there and look pretty. And I'm like, I'm so much more than that. And sometimes you just don't need somebody up in your business interacting with you all.

Like you just my body [00:35:00] knows how to physically get this baby out of me. And I remember too when the doc, again, like externally, the system is like, this is, you're gonna, we're gonna put you on Pitocin, we're gonna give you a epidural, the whole thing, we're gonna push it through. And I looked at them and I said, no, I'm gonna do this naturally, thank you.

And they were like, we need to go find a nurse that can handle that because that's not something we get all the time. And I was like, Jesus, having 80%, it was like 80% of people got. I don't even know the stat could be wrong, but it was, 15, 17, 18 years ago. But it was like 80% of women were getting Pitocin or having assisted laborers and they just didn't know what to do with me.

And then I came back the second time and I looked at the doctor and she's we can give you some Pitocin to get this started. And I said, you can go fuck yourself. And she's exactly, fucking doctor, and two natural births. And I know that's not possible for anyone. There's no judgment in that.

It's just like I knew it was just like and I understand like you go in with a birth plan, it gets thrown out the window and you just have to let go and let God, there's a real surrender moment in all of it. But for me, I just, [00:36:00] I don't know. I'm doing my best to marry to find the ways, there's moments where therapy's great.

There's moments where magic is great. There's moments where Western medicine is great. There's moments where. Magical medicine is great. I'm weaving all those together and understanding that there's a place for all of it and it can all exist happily together. Somehow

Kylie Patchett: I feel like I wanna pull on the thread of the whole labor thing because I had a magical conversation with a lady yesterday who she went through cancer and then off the back of that decided she was gonna walk the Camino.

And so she walked 800 kilometers in five weeks and has gone on to walk all over the world and is just about to leave for three, three years of traveling with her husband. And one of the things that we talked about heaps was this pace at which we've been taught that things have to happen and that there's a plan.

Yeah. And it's the same as a labor thing. And I just feel like it's more of the same. We are being pulled out [00:37:00] of our own timing, our own natural pace, our own alignment, our own knowing. And it's all the same problem. As I'm talking to you, I'm like, that's how we block miracles. And I think for, I don't know, it's such a, it's such a difference to the way that I was conditioned was, productivity work worth.

Like you put your nose down to the grindstone and you get the result. And that works. But far out, man, it takes a cost, doesn't it? And I just feel like, yeah, everything, almost everything we've been conditioned to believe that comes from a, industrialized cultures where we are all meant to be part of this big machine is.

False and it's blocking miracles. We just need to blow it all up and start again, Amanda.

Amanda H Young: Yeah. It's like cracking the whip. And I am so productive. I am a generator in human design. I am one of the worker bees that gets shit done. No doubt. And I have done miraculous things in short amounts of time.

I'm a quick start. [00:38:00] Like I just know if somebody's got a big problem and they give it to me, I'm gonna solve it. I'm gonna make it more efficient, more effective, I'm gonna make it happen. And that's great. But I'm also recognizing that there's a way that you can really burn out in that. And I've been through the layers of burnout.

I've been through so many careers and trying to fit in other people's boxes and I've quit so many jobs. You and I have that in common. I think last count I was probably, I probably have had 35 different jobs. It's just I need variety. I know I'm an entrepreneur. I'm neuros sparkly on top of it.

Like when you put all these ingredients together, I know that I'm meant to be an entrepreneur and I'm meant to do my own thing at my own pace. And the timing of it is fascinating because I have always been like a go go get it. Hustler. And I think this last three years of my life since deciding to go through with the separation and the divorce and rebuilding my whole life, I've just been like, screw all of it.

I am no longer, I'm not [00:39:00] available for that pace. And I definitely, I'm somebody who goes like zero or 60, yeah, I'm way fast, super fast on the track or super slow. Yeah. I have all the shades in the middle and I'm, I am trying to be less dual, less having less duality in my life and less all or nothing.

And finding the gray areas and really sitting into them. But I'm somebody who takes a lot of naps and that's, I. My body at this point in this phase is just Hey, we need you to get, we need a timeout. And my stress levels, like I've always had anxiety for since having kids.

Kylie Patchett: Yeah.

Amanda H Young: Especially.

And so for me, that level of my body just needs breaks and I'm now wearing this new wearable thing that's tracking and it's just you are getting so much great sleep. Your recovery's amazing. And I'm like, I'm looking at it like, wow, I love that you're loving up on me. And at the same time I'm like, it says I'm doing a good job, but my body still wants more.

And I'm recognizing that and listening to that more than anything and just [00:40:00] saying. I'm trying to pay attention to what are the foods that fuel me? What are the people, who are the people that fuel me? Who like and even more on the human design side, listening, because I'm an emotional I just, all of it is what feels good to me.

What doesn't feel good to me tonight, I can go to a Euchre tournament or I can go to someone's home and play yucca with four other women and the tournament's, what's feeling good to me? And it, there's something, there's some connection to my potential home. I'm gonna meet somebody. Something like, I just, it's the nudge, right?

It's just the, maybe it's smarter for me in some ways to go with the group that I've been going to, but there's something calling me to this other thing and I just, my curiosity is just peaked. Let's go see what happens. It could be a total flap and I could walk away and be like, all right, maybe that wasn't a thing, but I'm gonna go to the next thing.

Kylie Patchett: Yeah, it could

Amanda H Young: just follow. So for me, that pacing. I'm getting to the point now where I will go to an event and it will feel wrong, and I will turn around and walk away and I [00:41:00] am, it used to be, oh, you should stay. This is the proper thing to do. Fuck that. All of it. Yeah. I just don't, I'm not buying into it anymore.

Kylie Patchett: It's so good. And I just feel I don't know, the older I get, the more I become more, yeah. More unapologetic about my needs. I had this hilarious thing happen during the week. Yeah. I feel like being neuros sparkly, it's such a journey of what's the word? Here in our disability services sector, we call things like accommodations or adjustments for people with different, different abilities.

And so one of the things that I'm really trying to lean into is giving myself the ability to be like. If I plan to stay at someone's house and then it doesn't feel right for me, then I will, and I'm trying to also extend that to other people. I'm not also requiring other people to be outside of what they need, but I just feel like sometimes when the neuro sparkly, like the rejection sensitivities there as [00:42:00] well, I'm like, oh, I can do it to other people, but don't walk outta my event.

'cause that would really hurt me. Yeah. But I just, I feel like there's so much wisdom in again, that to me is rule of shit because it's just I, it's not right for me to be in this room anymore, so I won't be, regardless of what that, you could make that mean or blah, blah, blah. And really no one else is paying as much attention to us as what we think they're anyway.

Amanda H Young: It's and it's so funny when you said that I was, so my grandmother her name is Margaret and she, we now use it as a verb. I'm gonna, I'm gonna go Margaret something now because it was. She, we have this joke that she would be able, she's the little old lady that would go to the grocery store, get what she needs, cut the line, pay for it, and leave before anybody knew what happened.

And so I will now call my aunt and my mom, or I'll text him and just say, Hey, I just pulled a Margaret. And they will be like, what is go like what now? What now? And it'll just, it'll just be [00:43:00] like, I find a parking space and you shouldn't turn. Like I just, whatever rule it is, I'm gonna break it.

I went to an event once and there's, it's like an open house. There's, I don't know, 40 people in line to check out. And I know the owner and I like, just wanted a t-shirt and I had a $25. It was like a $25 t-shirt.

Kylie Patchett: Yeah. Yeah.

Amanda H Young: Yeah. I had a $20 credit. So I literally said, here's the tag for you to ring up later.

Here's the money you need for the difference. It'll cover the tax. I don't care. I'm walking out. And people just looked at me like, how the fuck did you do that? And I'm like I'm and you're always telling me it's my net worth. That is my net worth, right? Because I'm a one four. And and that's in human design for people listening too, right?

Yeah, it's 'cause I know the owners of places and I just say to them like, I don't wanna be here for the next hour. I don't, you don't need me to check out right now. I can come back and get it tomorrow if you prefer, but I'd rather just take the T-shirt and go, you like, this is, figure it out later if you need me to come back and I'll, but I just it's all the little things like how can this be [00:44:00] done way more efficiently And Yes.

Yeah. So I channel her a lot to, she was a entrepreneur before her time. Like she, my mom talks about how when she was feeding 'em, she put snaps on the bottom of the bib to the, and then clips on the bottom of the table. So she snapped the bib to the table to catch all the food. She would've been a fucking billionaire, like the thing, she was a seamstress and a hairstylist.

Like she owned a salon in her basement and she had three kids and she just, she did it all and she just made it all work. And I just. I'm, she would invent stuff, it just was, but she also went golfing and was in a bowling league. Like she knew how to take care of herself and her home and her clients and be entrepreneurial.

She was well ahead of her time.

Kylie Patchett: Ahead of her time. Yeah. Margaret, the og unique unicorn. Yeah. Yeah. I love it. I love it. I love it. And she's one

Amanda H Young: of yeah, she's one of my biggest supporters and, guides. I [00:45:00] don't know that it's her. I just,

Kylie Patchett: feel. Yeah. Is this where the spectacular hair comes from as well?

Amanda H Young: Yes. Yeah. See, there you go. My mom always jokes. She's we got enough hair for 20 people. And I'm like, yeah,

Kylie Patchett: but it's great. Luxurious. I just feel like you could, if you ever wanted another career, you could be in the hair commercials doing that. It's so funny 'cause when

Amanda H Young: I say it, when people say, like, how do you describe Amanda in three words?

They're like, the hair. The hair. This box. Yeah. It just comes in. And also

Kylie Patchett: now the crown, because I'm gonna buy you one and send

Amanda H Young: it to you because you absolutely need, I used to have a, oh, I have a mask. I don't, I have a masquerade mask, have tiara. Anyone? I'll work on that with my, I'll leave that with my drum.

I'm gonna have to go get my drum and maybe I wear my tiara in the woods

Kylie Patchett: with the fairies. And you know what, if you did, I wouldn't even surprise me or look out of place because it'd be like yeah. Amanda's just doing Amanda. That's where it's, that's

Amanda H Young: where it's at, right? I just, I think owning it and maybe that's what I need to do to make my, my intuition louder [00:46:00] is to wear a crown and be like, and now's the time for you to turn this up.

This is the portal. I actually,

Kylie Patchett: I was just thinking before, I'm like maybe Margaret's the one that you need to talk to about turning up the volume. Be like, Hey, yeah. Wake this up a bit. She seems like the cosmic boombox type of gal. I just as we were talking about that in the woods, I wonder do you, when you think about the clients that you help, what is some of the things that like surprise and delight them?

Because I'm imagining that the people that you work with, they may think like their field of possibilities might be like one degree open and then I'm just like, then they get maned and they're in the field of miracles. So yeah, I wanna what surprises and delights them when you've told some wild stories.

Yeah. It's

Amanda H Young: I guess it's, I don't know how to answer that for other people. What I would say for me is that, I have people, I've [00:47:00] had three women now I think come to me and they're like. Medically, there's no reason that they can't get pregnant. Some of 'em are trying, two of 'em were trying in Vitro or IVF or what?

IVF or IUI.

Kylie Patchett: Yeah. One of those. Yeah.

Amanda H Young: Yeah. And one of 'em was like, oh my gosh, this is the last, this is my last hope. It was like, help that moment in Star Wars. Were hope. Help me O Obi one, you're my only hope. She's like on the phone with me and she's I've got this. I've got this last chance, and they're, and she's the nurses keep calling me and are like, we don't think it's gonna work.

And I was like, you tell those motherfucking nurses to shut their ass. Yeah, exactly. Because they said this baby's gonna stick. And sure enough that baby's four years old now, right? And I'm just like, you, we just need. God, if what I wouldn't give to be able to just go do seminars with the people that are doing fertility treatments and be like, okay, let's revamp your entire process.

Yeah. To give people hope every step of the way because it's a mindset thing. Yeah. [00:48:00] And I had another woman who came in, she want, she was working on getting pregnant and I was like you're so worried about dying and leaving your kid behind that you are not willing to let the baby into the womb.

Kylie Patchett: Yeah,

Amanda H Young: and then I had another one that was, there was some legacy thing that was going on in between, I think she was doing IUI. And then she was between, she was getting ready to do IVF and they were doing all these tests and trying to figure out if she was even viable. She went and got knocked up naturally.

Yeah. Because we had done this work and I was like, wait, did you just save a hundred grand on IVF? She's yeah. I'm like, I'm not charging enough.

Kylie Patchett: Yeah, no, that's the goal. That's the, I think that's the realization, isn't it? It's oh my God, I'm not actually being respectful of this gift by allowing it to be like, a super low cost, and then it, and then not, like you were saying before, why would that person not come back?

And it's it's got so much to do with the energy that we actually like, to me, everybody's legacy work is sacred. And when [00:49:00] we realize that, it's oh, hang on a minute. Yeah. I'm actually not receiving in a, like an equitable fashion, but it's also there needs to be fair exchange for things.

And I know there's so much bullshit in the coaching world about charge your worth. And it's you're priceless. So it's a ridiculous conversation, where values are overinflated, but then there's this whole side of the internet and often it is the healers and helpers that are like I don't know.

And I think there's some old stuff there about, we should be able to give it away because we should, we have these natural gifts. And it's yeah. Okay. So the person who built your house gives that to you too. Does that feel fair?

Amanda H Young: Yeah. And to think that a lawyer is charging you $500 an hour or x amount of money for, just the things that.

I'm so fascinated because when I say to somebody, when somebody comes to me and says, I think I need to get a divorce, or I'm not sure about my marriage, and I look at them and I say I can't guarantee whatever outcome is gonna happen or what the miracle is for you, but I can tell you, like I can help hold space for you to actually get in touch with who you are [00:50:00] inside and figure out which path you wanna go forward.

Whether you wanna work on the marriage or separate and fi figure it out, or you're sure you wanna get divorced, like whichever path you go, I can help smooth that path so that it's a lot easier for you to, to. To manage that and make it easier on your children, bring it together. And I've worked with a couple recently that was, he came in after we had done some sessions with her and he joined us and I looked at him and I said, how are you feeling?

He is this has been the fir the best. This has been the best time in our marriage. And I'm looking at that. I'm like, okay, so come back for more. I'm waiting for them to come back for more because I don't think people recognize that you can spend, 7,500 or $10,000 on coaching or $20,000 on coaching, or you can start paying for two households and two lives when you know, like you could have saved that or you could, or maybe you still need.

To pay for two lives and you do need to separate and you're gonna invest in coaching so that you can expand into [00:51:00] the field of miracles. So that perfect job that's gonna provide that new income level for you is there. It's just we're so conditioned that a single mom is gonna be poor and struggling and suffering.

Yes. Blah, blah. I'm like all the labels that's one of the first things I want people to do is just get rid of the label and be like, yeah, I'm not, I don't have to take on the story identity.

Kylie Patchett: Yeah. It's all just like one way of being. 'cause we like when we start, this is why I love like thinking about expanders.

'cause like in a human design perspective, I've got a completely open G center, which means that, I'm like a chameleon. And until I really understood that, I was like, why am I always so changeable in the way that I, but now what I understand about that is I, it's almost like what we are saying about with the news I need to know that I can be influenced by other people's, like very clear identities and make sure that where I'm swimming is the [00:52:00] field of the miracle expanders for me. So people who I admire, people who have the same values, people who wouldn't ever fuck people over, like all of those kind of things.

So that as I'm expanding, 'cause I do feel like so much of what can pull us off track, you can make it, make meaning of it through the lens of human design. It's oh yeah, that makes sense because this is an open center for me or whatever. But just understanding for people that, like we've been conditioned.

This is one of the biggest things actually as we're talking that comes into my field is we've been conditioned to value Yeah. Like the serious professions, like the medical people and the specialists and the lawyers and the whatever. And I'm like, how have we. Come to a point in time where we don't value as clearly or highly opening up more potential for ourselves or more growth or more evolution or a path that allows us to know whether we do [00:53:00] wanna be in a marriage or not.

Like I just, it's such a weird, it's so ass about, isn't it? It's we taught to,

Amanda H Young: if you lived in the field of miracles, right? Yeah. We're totally taught to just abandon ourselves over and over. And I married an architect. It was, he was the steady eddie and straight and narrow.

And then I'm over here zipping around all these different things, trying to butterfly my way into what feels good. And it, it still just didn't, it just wasn't the right thing for me. It's so fascinating to see how it. How we can just bounce around and feel lost. And even when you're talking about, being a chameleon, I can also be a chameleon, but it's because I'm, I don't know if there's something different in my, it doesn't feel like there's something different in my human design.

It feels like I was doing it to mask like I was masking. Yeah. Because I can fit in anywhere I've, and, but that's also that. Maybe it's closer. It sounds like it's closer to my four line of my one four where I'm a networker. Yeah. Because I really can, I can go [00:54:00] anywhere and talk to anyone. That's very natural.

Kylie Patchett: Yeah.

Amanda H Young: And that's that's a talent we used to joke with about my mom. She would go to the grocery store for milk and come back four hours later. 'cause she knows everybody in town. Yeah. And it's, yeah, my

Kylie Patchett: husband does that all the time. Even just yesterday, he went to get eggs and I'm like. Did he not leave at two o'clock?

It's now dark. Like it's, I literally lots of chickens

Amanda H Young: now. You have

Kylie Patchett: chickens in the backyard? I do have chickens in the backyard, but no, what had happened was he ran into someone who's from the same town we used to live in, which is three hours away, and they've just moved and now he's going to have a drink and meet Dave's wife and blah, blah, blah.

And I'm like, oh my God, I literally cannot help you get allow you out of my sight without losing you. But his mom's gotta put a tracker

Amanda H Young: on him. Yeah, no, it's the same way. And it's yeah, I know I can strike up a conversation with anybody and it goes back to those markers and the ability, but it's all about creating safety for people, right?

Like I, it's not there's just, I think some people that have auras of safety that really make people comfortable right away. And for me in that, in my [00:55:00] work. I've seen people, or I've had people say to me, working one session with you was like six months of therapy. And I'm like yeah, because in therapy you have to spend all this time getting to know the other person and you might not feel safe.

I have that unique ability for people to come over to me and just drop right into the safe zone. And I'm like, okay, I know this is your first session, but we're gonna go deep. Do I have your permission? And they're like, yes, let's do it. And then all of a sudden I rip off the bandaid and pull out the goblin inside and they're like, wow.

I had a, I have a client recently who's she does a lot of work with unlawful death, I think is what it's called. Like accidental death, right? Yeah. So she sees a lot of videos of people dying all the time. She's this shit's weighing on me energetically. And I just like you were talking before, when you're on the edge of your expansion and you're not sure what to do, because I'm working with my guides and I have this intuitive connection. I was just like, all right, what do we need to do to help her? And all of a sudden it was like, this is what you're doing, step one, two, and three.

And we just released 'em, [00:56:00] put 'em in a ball of love. And I said, this is your programming going forward. If anybody comes in and you feel like you need to release them, this is your protocol. And you just say, I'm putting you in a ball of love. May you rest in peace. I value your soul. Your life was given for a good purpose.

And then release it. And she's I can't tell you how incredible I feel after doing that. It was years and years of death getting released from her in one session. And I like one moment of one session. And that's like the yummy goodness that I. I take for granted at this point because I'm living in that miracle field with my clients all the time, so that when a client comes in and they're like, oh yeah, one of 'em is oh my God. The poor thing. She's been through so much, but every time she comes, she's and this is happening. That's good. And this is happening. That's good. And then I got all this money, and then all my bills got paid, and then this is cured and this is the, and I just, I'm looking at her like, I'm sorry.

I just I just [00:57:00] can't even, can you just go out and come back when you actually have some real frigging problems? Because it's just like she's shitting rainbows, right?

Kylie Patchett: Yeah.

Amanda H Young: With very little effort. Very little effort. And I'm like let's just crank this up and see what if I actually have clients that come consistently and get put into a more, what's possible?

Let's play with this. Let's crank it up and just turn it on. Even. I guess that's my whole theme today is turn it up a little better. Turn

Kylie Patchett: up the miracle. Yeah. It's, but it's so cool though. It is because the way that you've been working with people, you could there's a part of me that's you know what?

So many of us settle at what is easily like accessible and it flows easily. It feels safe because you've been doing it rinse and repeat for years. You know that. And we've talked about this before. When someone is in front of you, it just turns on there's no efforting. It's something that comes really naturally to you.

And I just admire when I see a woman expanding into, but hang on a [00:58:00] minute, there's this pull towards something even more delicious. And it's it's got a spicy edge to it because it's like, how much delicious am I allowed to have in my life? But I feel like that is, that's the definition of being on the front end of the expansion that you're inviting other people into, right?

It's yeah, like maybe I've only been playing in 50% of the Miracle Field and I can expand into a hundred and bring you with me. So yeah, I just, I can't wait to I can't wait to hear what house materializes for you. 'cause I'm like, oh, this is gonna be a good one because she's more please.

Amanda H Young: It's so fast. It's even more, you turned me on to this book. I don't remember who the author is. The two times is better than 10 times or two times. Two times is harder than 10 times. Benjamin Hardy. Yeah. Yes. Benjamin Hardy. So when I listen to that, listened to his interviews and read parts of the book, I was just like, oh yeah, it just takes away the [00:59:00] your options.

And really, and I've given this advice to so many people so many times, but even I. In manifesting my home. There are so many options that aren't there, and it is a 10 time magnification for me. So there's a very large piece of me that's just holy shit, what the hell are you doing?

And the rest of me is just hold on, we got this. Somebody's holding on, like somebody, there's something magical happening here. And I just trust I'm not gonna be homeless. I have multiple friends that are like, Hey, you can live with me if it takes longer or whatever. I have options.

But there is this, I find that even with my clients when I say I said to one the other day like, what is it you actually want? And her answer was to be cloned. And I was like, no we're not doing that. So what do you actually want? And I was like, what if we did this instead?

And she's oh. Yeah, I'm like, just have some harmony in your life. You don't need to believe in balance. 'cause I think that's bullshit, but harmony. I'm like, when you, and what I [01:00:00] explained to her was like, if you step into your sovereignty, become the ruler of your life and really own, if you set the boundaries that you need to set, and if you show up fully in your who you are and how you show up and how you're meant to be, you are conducting your own orchestra.

If you want the drums to be louder or the winds to be louder, or the trombone to kick it even deeper, whatever it is, you get to, gently let those rise and flow and create this beautiful harmony. You can bring in entire new instruments or cut it down to just three. Whatever you want, you really get to.

Build it how you want to, and I think that's when people really start to step into their genius and step into their magic. And that's when the miracles can happen because you're co-creating. We all are made of stardust, we're all, there's a God inside of us. Like we are embodiment of that.

And I guess they keep going back to [01:01:00] the St. Francis of Ass's prayer like, Lord, make me an instrument of your peace. Because that's my whole purpose here is to be in service of God. And regardless of my religion or where, I'm not religious. I'm very spiritual. I'm doing my own thing. Yeah. Yeah.

Just sitting in the magic feeling into the energy of it. Like we're all connected. When somebody across the world, something bad happens, my heart breaks. I don't pay attention to the news. I really try to avoid it and stay in my own lane because I'm here to do magical things. And it's harder when you're bogged down by all that other stuff.

Yeah. But I can also send love and I can recognize the grief. I can send love to all of it. I can see that somebody's struggling and say, angels go on over there and help them out, or,

Kylie Patchett: yeah. Yeah. It's so funny. St. Francis is the patron saint of the school I went to. Oh, interesting.

So I actually, yeah. For the whole of my high school, said that prayer every single day. And I have actually never not [01:02:00] thought about it for a long time. Yeah. So funny. There was a statue of St. Francis in the front courtyard of that, school. School and he had like his arm up, but a little bird like sitting there.

'cause he was, supposed to be very animal centric. Yeah. I love that. Let me be an instrument of your piece. Yeah. It feels so

potent, doesn't it? At this time in the world as well. So it's and held. I mean there's, and like you

Amanda H Young: said, politically here in the US things are getting wild westy and just very, and I just, I could get wrapped up into it. I have friends that bitch and moan and complain about it all the time. And I am doing my best to hold space for.

Understanding that things were broken before this. It's not like things were great beforehand. Yeah, exactly. Yeah. And and in homeopathy they talk about, pushing the pendulum all [01:03:00] the way to the side so that it can resettle back into where it's mostly needs to be. I think he's an intense pendulum really shoving us all the way to our, yeah.

Our full on, anti place of wear, of happiness and peace, but it's really activating a whole lot of people to pay more attention and say, whoa, this isn't what I really want.

Kylie Patchett: Yeah.

Amanda H Young: And so let's see what happens. Are we gonna have chaos for several years maybe? Is the democracy falling?

Maybe, is our constitution that. Risk. Absolutely. Who knows? We'll see what happens. Even there's big changes I think afoot even in a matter of five days. So after who knows? In hindsight, it's funny. I just watched a comedian that was like a comedy show from a couple years ago, and what he was saying was like, how great it is to be in America.

And I was like, oh dude, this is not aged. No, it has not. It has not. And so I don't wanna sit here and make predictions and then have things, change tomorrow, because that's the pace of things going back to our pacing, right? [01:04:00]

Kylie Patchett: That is, yeah. So

Amanda H Young: who knows when this episode airs what actually is happening in the world, but I'm just gonna continue to be a beacon of peace and send prayers for everybody and know that the right, we are being activated as women.

And I'm seeing it even in my older friends. They're saying, oh, you know what, I'm not tolerating the bullshit. My, my husband who's since passed has didn't let the dog on the bed and didn't want a TV in the bedroom. And she's I'm doing that shit. Yeah, exactly. My life. I can do what I want. To see the women like each little micro, it's again, going back to the dahlia of expressing itself a little bit more and expanding a little bit more.

Each breath.

Kylie Patchett: So cool. It's so cool. It's just, yeah. It's just such a reminder that I don't know. I know the flavor has been all about miracles, but as we are talking, I'm like more and more rulership. And then with the rulership comes that we are always at power to choose our reality. [01:05:00] And miracles don't occur if we don't believe that they can because we don't, like I just, our brains are so good at proving ourselves, it's just have you got the door open or closed? Yeah. And I have so love this chat. Sorry. You go. One of

Amanda H Young: the greatest books that I've read is Florence Koshin has a book called, your Word Is Your Wand. Have you ever seen her stuff? No, I haven't. She was one of the, she's a meta physician from, oh, probably a hundred years ago, maybe more.

And she has, it's a collection of four books that's all in one. But it's all stories of miracles and bizarre things that happen, but it plants the seed for people to not have. A typical reality of what has been expected of them. And it's really and it, she, she talks about how your word is your wand.

And anytime a friend of mine stands around me is oh, I'm so broke. I'm like, nah, no, we're not letting that in here. That energy is just bank accounts catching up to you. Yeah. Miracles are on the way. Whatever else [01:06:00] you wanna say, but that is not language I'm tolerating.

Kylie Patchett: No. I have been doing that from birth with my kids.

Every time anyone in our household says something out loud that you wouldn't really wanna be manifesting, I'm like, Nope. Return to send a delete with the kids used to. Fricking annoying when you're having a hissy fit at life and you wanna be like having a tanin. And kids are like, shut up. Not now.

Cry child. Oh, Dan,

Amanda H Young: when they turn it back on you, I know it's.

Kylie Patchett: My husband's favorite thing is if I'm having a hissy fit in my business, he'll be like, and if this was a client, what would you be? Shut up. Like I'm just, I'm not available for you turning the mirror on me at the moment.

Amanda H Young: Can you just gimme space to have my tantrum please?

That would be great. And I, when I'm done, I will move on and, you can resume your, and then I'll

Kylie Patchett: come back and say yeah, you were right, blah, blah, blah. Anyway, sometimes we just have to move through it. I know we've talked about your new [01:07:00] evolution, but a where can people find you? But also we haven't really talked about the new expansion of your work in terms of the length of time that people get to come and play with you because there is no single session toe dipping available in your field anymore, which I'm very excited about.

Me too. I'm

Amanda H Young: I. I've always really want, I've enjoyed the clients that stick with me and work with me on a consistent basis. And this builds consistency into it, because that's gonna be how they get the results. Yeah. Even more clients. Even the one offs get magical results. But I really am excited to see how they evolve with this new model.

Kylie Patchett: Yeah. It's

Amanda H Young: so juicy. My website is Amanda h as in house young. Or healing, I guess h as in healing. Yeah. Young. Y-O-U-N-G dot com. I'm in the States, so we have the magical.com.

Kylie Patchett: Yeah.

Amanda H Young: And yeah, I'm gonna work with clients if they have one thing that they really need to work on, like maybe they're on a [01:08:00] project and they're just like, I really wanna focus on this one thing.

We can do a one month intensive. And if they want longer term support, which I expect most people are gonna do three months with me and really dive into that. Yeah. Doing weekly sessions, I think probably three, sometimes maybe four sessions a month, but a week of integration, it really depends on the client how much they need.

Some of those sessions could be 15 minutes for people. If they're high powered CEOs and they only have 15 minutes to get something done, we can tweak it in that amount of time. So it's not, I'm really very focused on the fact that it's not about how much time you spend in the room with me, it's about getting the job done.

And if you only need one message that's just Hey, you don't have a fear of flying. We need to clean this one little trauma up and boom. Exactly. Next. But yeah, they can work with me for three, six or nine months and depending on that, it's a flat amount for the month and we're, gonna step into the field together.

They get to stay under my wing. I'm recognizing that. [01:09:00] When people work with me, I am constantly finding articles or little things that are going to spark something in them and I'll, even if it's just a little meme or something like that, I do that cobbling thing with the neuros sparkly. Yes. Love it. Yeah, so it's a little bit of that, but it gives me a lot more space to be able to do that for people in a deeper way.

And then checking in with 'em. It's not, I don't wanna be the therapy session that when somebody's in crisis, that they don't call me and say, Hey, I'm in crisis. And if somebody falls, I want them to be able to text me and say, Hey, can you clean me out? Which I don't really talk to about a lot of my clients.

I'm trained in I was trained to teach people how to do energy mastery. Yes. Yeah. So I'm, I have the ability, if somebody gets a concussion or is having a panic attack or whatever, I have the ability to wave my hands from across the globe and help that be released much faster. So great. So it's allowing all those gifts to come [01:10:00] online and blend for me in a new way.

Kylie Patchett: It's having your personal Miracle Queen ruler in the house, but also what I love about the way that you hold space for people is it's not it's very different to the feeling of people being like creating dependency because you are also Oh, for sure not. Hell no. Yeah exactly. Like we're not available for that shit.

But just the on flow of being able to marinate in this field of miracles is that it becomes your normal, but also you are, I don't know, able to use the tools as well yourself so that you're expanding your capacity to hold more. We talk about this all the time expansion.

People think it's like expanding into only the good things. It's no, it's expanding into just being able to hold more of the very varied human experience and emotion. But that also means that you're not collapsing yourself down to then the miracle can't come in. So that is the yeah, [01:11:00] this is the the joy point.

Oh, I'm so excited. Yeah. And part of that is me teaching people. I've learned all these different tools. I've, I've hacked the system on so many things. This is how I think about boundaries. This is the tool I use to clean, to reprogram mindset things. These, so people learn these different tools and techniques, even return to sender.

Amanda H Young: So many people don't even know how you can just be like, Hey, I don't, is this my energy? Is this their energy? Like little muscle testing, what, whatever those little tools are. There are things that I it's almost like the basics that you have in your pantry or your fridge all the time. Yeah.

And they are just my go-tos, but other people don't have that. And then I think how are they creating miracles if they don't have the standard screwdriver?

Kylie Patchett: They're not,

Amanda H Young: and a pair of they're not. And they're not, and they're subscribing to the struggle and the, there's way more magical ways to do things in life. And it's so fun to watch my kids. You don't think about it when you have kids and you're a energy healer. Woo, woo. Miracle instigator. My kids come [01:12:00] home and they have all these magical things that happen in their lives, and I'm just like, oh yeah, that's just normal.

Yeah, that's my normal.

Kylie Patchett: Okay. And other people, when they, I had something oh, I actually had a whole day of that, like real feeling. It was so funny. It started with, at Pilates, like my Pilates teacher is 10 years younger than me. So her soundtrack is generally like, the what she would listen to when she grew up.

But for some reason this morning she had the nineties rock on and I was like, best soundtrack. And then wherever. And then it was like I was followed around by all of the best music all day and stuff, and I'm like. Of course it's like this, of course it's like this. And it's so funny because I forget, and then you have, you slip back into that and I'm like, of course.

It's like this. It's like this is just the way of the universe if you allow it to be so yeah. Thank you. This expect good things.

Amanda H Young: Yeah. Thank you for having me. This has been delightful as always. You're so difficult

Kylie Patchett: by the time this is out, you'll be in your new home woo. You might even have to put an addendum in the, on the show notes so everyone knows what you manifested.

Oh, thank you so [01:13:00] much. Yeah,

Amanda H Young: my lease is up end of May yep. And my birthday's in June, so there's a big shift in that energetic happening for the second half of the year too. So all the magic, all the miracles happening. I'm just so excited

Kylie Patchett: for, and this sunlight beaming on your face for the whole interview.

I'm like, and you are going into your spring. So yeah, it's the time of starting new things and

Amanda H Young: I'm definitely coming out of my. Cave and wiggling around more and feeling into weight.

Kylie Patchett: I'm heading into mine.

Amanda H Young: Yeah,

Kylie Patchett: actually, as I'm sitting here, I'm like, I really need to bring my socks over here, my fluffy bed socks, because my, the floor in this office, 'cause I haven't had this season in this office yet, is actually quite chilly.

So I'm like, okay, there's gonna have to be some sort of little sheepskin or something under my tootsies. Oh, goodie. Thank you so much, Amanda. I'm so excited for you to just Yeah. Be owning everything that you bring to the table in a whole new way and inviting you yourself into your own evolution, because [01:14:00] of course, that's the slipstream.

So excited to see. Yeah. What comes next?

Amanda H Young: I am, I'm so grateful to have had you as a guide and a coach on my journey, because I've been in your potent group now for, I don't know, what, three months and it's been Yeah, we. It's been life changing and even doing scene. And it was so funny that in the middle of the night, one night I was up in the middle of the night and all of a sudden I'm scrolling through Instagram for some reason, and I saw your thing and I was like, it just whispered.

It was like, you need to be here. And I was like, all I was like, wait $33, yeah, exactly. And I was like, wait, that's all I gotta do to get into my voice and visibility. And then it just gently pulled me in and I remember you saying, Amanda, why didn't you sign up for potent? What the hell?

And I was like, exactly. I don't think I'm supposed to be in it. And then you're like, but you are. And then I was like, ah, you're right. Okay, fine.

Kylie Patchett: So like some. That's when I do get the visual things. Like I was so clear on who was coming in and I was like, I just don't get it. I haven't got her [01:15:00] application yet.

I don't understand why this is happening. 'cause she's already in the circle. I can see her. So I'm glad you said Yeah.

Amanda H Young: It's funny 'cause sometimes I just, I don't know. I was like, do I just have had so much bullshit around coaches, coaching coaches to coach coaches and I just was like, do I really need another fucking thing?

And then you're like let me just put this invitation right in front of your nose and let you actually feel it. And then I was like, oh yeah, that sounds good. And I'm so glad I did because I've really appreciated the support and just the group is beautiful. How you hold space for us is beautiful.

And just the, your knowledge and ability and you just have so many talents and so many gifts and I love that you're sharing 'em. So thank you.

Kylie Patchett: Thank you. It feels beautiful to be seen and recognized and yeah, I'm just so grateful that I said yes to my own next level invitation and held seen in my whole self because the people like you that have come into my field as a [01:16:00] result, that's what I feel like We forget that Yes, the expansion feels scary, but oh my God the reciprocal, like what starts to unfold if you can just hold yourself through that expansion.

Yeah. Like the women that are in my, even we had the opening call yesterday for G-Spot and just the people in that circle, I'm like, I just. Like how did I, how do I get this lucky? I'm like, it's not luck. It's actually being honest with all that you are and then allowing yourself to be seen and then allowing that to be exactly what we were just talking about.

The invitation is always there for the people that come into your field to step into their full power too. And that's the way that we will change the world. And this is why like when people say, why are you not watching the news? I'm like, I don't need to watch the news. I'm doing everything that I can, which then ripples out to the next woman because I truly believe it is the women standing up that will make a change.

And yeah, I do. I do totally agree with that. Pendulum. Yeah. [01:17:00] It's like we have to unfortunately get to the collapse stage, but also, I don't know too much about this, but the human design end of things, like we change into the cross of the Phoenix in 2027. So there's some big, and I don't really understand.

I don't know. At the moment, we are in a We energy, so it's like the collapse of anything that's not right with the community and the collection of the we. But then the cross of the sleeping Phoenix is I energy, so it's going to be much more about emotional intelligence and emotional feeling and sensing.

And I'm like, that's interesting 'cause that is not how the world works right now,

Amanda H Young: and I've

Kylie Patchett: been told

Amanda H Young: similarly that we are, every human is going to start needing energetic powers and abilities to start navigating this. And I'm one of those people That's Got it. And I will say too, that you just by leading and showing, like you're showing up, you're showing behind the scenes how you're doing things and you're giving other people the courage, like you said, to actually do it.

And I'm one of those people that now has the courage because I'm like Kylie can do it. [01:18:00] I can do it too. Yeah, exactly.

Kylie Patchett: And when we don't bloody. Polish ourselves up. People realize Kylie's just a normal person. She's just a messy, yes, magical. Chaotic, sometimes depressed, sometimes you know, high on life person.

Like she's just like one of us. And I think that's the biggest damage that we do when we try and only show the little shiny bits of us out there, because then we make ourselves unapproachable and people cannot see themselves in us. And that's a really big problem because no one, no matter how much success they show on the outside, it doesn't mean that they've got their shit together in every single corner of the of life.

'cause

Amanda H Young: yeah,

Kylie Patchett: it's just not what life is. It

Amanda H Young: perpetuates trauma, it just perpetuates the trauma and it creates even more damage instead of just being able to say to somebody like, yeah, I'm hurting. And we see it in the masculine culture so often, and I just. I'm excited to be raising a son who, he [01:19:00] literally came up to me the other day and was like, look at all the sex sexualization of women in my video games, mom.

And I was like, yeah. The fact that he's talking about that at 15 makes me want proud mama because he's, and the fact that he

Kylie Patchett: loves to cuddle his mama still

Amanda H Young: oh my God, you're such a bunny. Oh, I love it. I love it. I love it. Yeah. It's good. You just, it's good to, I feel like I can, I'm contributing really beautiful humans to the world that are gonna be the change makers.

They're not necessarily the doctors, the lawyers, the Harvard students, but they are the love that we need more so than anything. And I don't need them to achieve and accomplish. I need them to just be themselves. And I think. I'm so glad that I'm able to give them that gift and I wish that gift was given to me, and I'm glad that they will then potentially be able to give it to any future generations and people that they're around because that is how the tsunami of change, I always think of the tsunami of change hitting the world and being able to ripple out [01:20:00] more so than the butterfly effect.

It's what if the butterfly effect was an entire tsunami of exactly amazing love that just washes over the planet? That feels yummy

Kylie Patchett: to me, doesn't it? Oh, yeah. I feel that the butterfly effect never, ever felt true for me. I don't know. Like I know it's all scientifically proven, but I'm like, I don't know.

I just, there's something in me that doesn't feel that in a visceral sense, but a tsunami. And as you're talking about a tsunami, if all of us are rising up at the same time, like we can't make a tsunami out of one person, but we can out of a collective. And that's the, like that, that I feel, not to say the butterfly effect is not true, I'm just saying for me individually, it never really resonated, but

Amanda H Young: it almost feels like each little butterfly cancels out the other butterflies and it's just a bunch of chaos.

That's what I like. Okay. But I do maybe leave this evolved into the next bubble, which is the wave. Yeah, let's just do that. Skip the butterfly. Go to the wave. Thank you, beautiful lady. Oh, have such a nice [01:21:00] weekend. I'm, thank you. Just heading into five days off, so I'm very excited. Amazing. Have a beautiful day.

Kylie Patchett: Bye-bye. Thank you. You too.

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